Inner Game Pickup Artist

On a recent episode of Dr. Phil, he invited the founders of Love Systems (formerly known as The Mystery Method) and Ross Jeffries (founder of Speed Seduction) to talk about their business, techniques for picking up women, and basically giving everyone an idea about what they’re about.

Dr. Phil seemed nonconfrontational, given the target demographic for his program and the fact that the episode was titled “Women Beware”, and likened learning how to meet women to the fact that women wear pushup bras, makeup, and take a lot of time to work on their appearance. If women can take steps to make themselves more attractive, then why shouldn’t guys be able to learn the same thing?

Mystery Method guys defended their method, claiming that people have to learn a good way to approach. If the way you start a conversation is boring and uncreative, then you’re likely to just get tuned out, and the girl won’t get a chance to know you. Both the women on the program said the Mystery Method techniques were really interesting and caught their attention, and they were a lot different from what they were used to hearing and being approached with (drunk dudes and sleazy guys).

Then Ross Jeffries came on and Dr. Phil seemed to be more aggressive towards him, perhaps because the image he portrays in his advertising is mysogynistic. But Jeffries has always claimed that the way to draw attention to his product is through really blunt, offensive, locker room talk, while the actual tone of the product is a lot more positive. Jeffries commented that Dr. Phil’s producers do the same thing, taking the most provocative clips from the shows to get people to watch (but this rebuttal was cut from the show). He also went on to attack the Mystery Method company, saying that they teach techniques that are destructive to woman’s self-esteem and can have negative long-term repercussions.

In actuality, even though there’s a lot of negative press surrounding both these groups and the idea of guys learning how to pick up women, and the fact that the competing seduction gurus often get into drawn out battles with each other, the fact is beneath all of this are just some good, common sense ideas. Both these methodologies (Mystery Method and Speed Seduction) place an emphasis on improving yourself and your lifestyle to become a more attractive person. Both place an emphasis on drawing boundaries about who you are and what kind of behavior you’ll accept from people. The Mystery Method is based on telling interesting stories which portray attractive qualities about yourself, which is something that most cool people do anyway. I’m sure a lot of you have friends that tell the same kind of stories the first time they’re meeting new people, it’s just that they’re not really that consciously aware that they’re using the same stories over and over again. Speed Seduction, on the other hand, teaches you to learn certain patterns and phrases to make your speech more persuasive and interesting. When you look at some of the romanticists that have existed over the years, people like Casanova, you’ll find that they use the same kind of descriptive language, they just didn’t consciously try and learn and apply techniques to acquire this manner of speech. Or maybe they did?

The overall reaction of the studio audience was pretty positive, and as the show went on and the guests got a chance to explain their side of the story, they started to win over the audience. Savoy, of Mystery Method, later said that there doesn’t have to be this negative image of the seduction community. If you’ve thought about making improvements to your social skills, there’s plenty of material and information out there to help you do. You don’t have to have money, looks, or fame to get the kind of success and social life that you really want, you just have to make the decision to get out there and socialize, and now you have the tools out there to help you improve.

Steve Starks is a entrepreneur and seduction expert devoted to getting men the results they need with the kind of women they want. Check out his site at Speed Seduction reviews, and be on the look out for his new book “Crack The Game” to be coming out soon.

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In most situations, as we’ve discussed before – you are going to have to approach a beautiful woman and incorporate lots of the other techniques we’ve discussed to be get her in a position to REALLY be sexy and seductive. But sometimes, as I’m sure you’ve noticed with friends, or just heard a great story about, a sinfully seductive woman in her own right will just want you to make your move…and do it fast! Yes, guys – women occasionally are just like you and will zero in on a confident, composed and utterly magnificently magnetic maestro of mojo, just like yourself..:-) She wants to “speed up” the introductions, cut the “red tape” and just dive in to the incredible erotic energy that is building between you.

So how do you make this happen, and get it done before someone else jumps in and takes your place? Easy. You exude the characteristics of elegance that we’ve already talked about. You engage her erotic energies…channel them through your own confidence and incorporate your own sense of urgency and understanding into her needs, and then simply and easily, take control

Take her home. There is no need for long loquacious speeches or rambling philosophical dissertations, regardless of what some other dating “gurus” might tell you here. It’s simply about two passionate and purposeful, confident and attractive people getting together and not caring about all of the formalities. But of course…this takes a confident and composed man to make happen. Most guys will simply drop the ball here, and if I had to guess…you probably have yourself (even if you don’t even realize the opportunity was there).

Again – each situation is a bit different. You simply need to apply your best, most persuasive powers to each particular escapade! But this is a good problem to have now, don’t you agree? Just make sure you stay confident, self aware and keep your purpose a prime priority. No dilly dallying or fumbling the ball…a speed seduction is sinful and occasionally VERY sexy – they don’t happen often, but when the opportunity knocks, well – you better know how to answer the door..:-) By now you most CERTAINLY should!

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